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Police Blotter: Naugatuck Man Charged with Larceny

The following information was provided by the public information officer at the Naugatuck Police Department. They are allegations at this point.

LARCENY
A pair of Naugatuck juveniles was charged with sixth-degree larceny after police said they stole a $65 sports coat from a fellow student on April 20. The juveniles were released to their parents. Both are scheduled to appear in Waterbury Juvenile Court on April 27.

THREATENING
Paul Ayoub, 49, 65 Village Circle, Naugatuck, was charged with third-degree assault, threatening and disorderly conduct on April 21 after police said he was involved in a domestic disturbance at his home on April 21. Minor injuries resulted, police said. Ayoub was held on a $2,500 non-surety bond.

DISORDERLY CONDUCT
Filipe Duarte, 84, 121 Reula Drive, Naugatuck, was charged with disorderly conduct an interfering with an emergency call after police said he was involved in a domestic dispute. Duarte was held on a $2,500 non-surety bond.

DUI
Keith Whitney, 43, 288 North Main St., Naugatuck, was charged with driving under the influence and driving the wrong way on a one-way street after police said he was driving the wrong way on a one-way street adjacent to the Naugatuck Fire Department on April 20. The juvenile was held on $2,500 surety bond and is scheduled to appear in Waterbury Superior Court on May 5.

wishingforpeace June 24, 2011 at 01:28 AM
Paul Ayoub is a danger to the public. He profiles women, manipulates them, and then verbally and physically abuses them. He denies that he murdered his estranged girlfriend Julie Swoszowski nearly 2 years ago, who was stabbed numerous times with a hunting knife. Not surprisingly, he physically abused his latest girlfriend (hence above chanrges) and then threatened her with an axe. This man is a true sociopath and needs to be put away. I am not posting this for any other reason then to help create public awareness & hopefully some folks will read this and stay far far away from him.
Dragonflies June 27, 2011 at 02:39 PM
I agree 100% with wishingforpeaces comment! He is a danger to society, and should NOT keep being allowed to post bail. There is no doubt in my mind that he did in fact murder his estranged girlfriend Julie. The mother was NO better than him, she was just as much of a sociopath, and I believe whole heartedly that she was also involved in the murder of Julie.
Makingitbetter November 29, 2011 at 12:00 AM
From experience, there is confirmation of abusive, both emotionally and physically....The police know him well!! Fortunately my life is intact!...Amazing how one can master manipulate one's way through society and with women. There is a "front" of being "holistic" and wanting "peace and love" for all, but underneath, there is ANGER and a troubled man....Some people lack emotional regulation and can be set off into a rage with no warning...yet they can be charming, but underneat there are great fears of abandonment...which will send one into aggressive behaviors. He has a history of these same behaviors with many women.... I hope other individuals do read these blogs....and heed carefully to what they are reading!...My sentiments with the girl above....
Makingitbetter November 29, 2011 at 12:17 AM
Here is latest news on Paul Ayoub...add it to lack of boundaries...IDENTITY THEFT Paul Ayoub, 49, 65 Village Circle, Naugatuck, was charged with third-degree identity theft, computer crime and unauthorized use of a computer on April 27 after police said he stole a computer and went through the files in the month of April. Ayoub was held on a $5,000 bond and was scheduled to appear in Waterbury Superior Court on Sept. 28. PLEASE...see through smoke screens....
peacelover February 09, 2012 at 05:14 PM
Hi Everybody. Im a man who dated a woman in the raw vegan world. We both knew Paul. The last time I saw Paul was at a kirtan in Torrington(march 2010), and he told me my ex said things about me which were not entirely true. This girl, scratched me up so badly I still have scars on my neck, she broke 2 pairs of my glasses, stole my email password and myspace password when we were dating. She also went through my journal probably when I was in the shower. She has a history of turbulent relationships. I wasnt prince charming but her actions were exceedingly worse. Not to mention she slandered me, tried to extort money from me, had me falsely arrested, and has acted like shes done nothing wrong. While Im still putting my life back together, from the trauma I experienced. The point is people do hide behind the holistic , raw food, chanting, and lovey dovey world they associate with. I dont know if Paul murdered Julie, but my intuition tells me he did. By the way I went to grade school and high school with Julie, we are the same age. Its an unjust world. I hope her spirit is in the beautiful energy world. Im not one of those pretentious ones, my last girlfriend, I told her I was looking for love, apparently that wasnt enough for her, she is an epileptic who said she wanted to be perfectly healthy. I was willing to help her get there, I did a lot of research on epilepsy, I showed her the door, she didnt want to walk through it..
ladygrace March 20, 2012 at 11:38 PM
I dated Paul on and off for 2 years quite some time ago. This is the first I've heard of this incident, believe it or not. Everything that has been written is correct. I wish more details about that horrible incident were available, but from what I've read I can definitely say 2 things: 1. There would be no living with Paul as an "ex" girlfriend, I just couldn't see that as being remotely possible with him. Breaking up with Paul is not done unless "he" wants it. 2. I don't know details, but if I crashed my car into his garage, I know for sure he would've killed me.
Makingitbetter March 27, 2012 at 02:35 AM
Amazing how all these women have experienced the abusive hands of Paul...I'm wondering what happened with Stacy ???? She was pursuing legally his actions...GOOD FOR HER!!!.....Paul can run but he can't hide because he makes himself too well known...especially to the police!!!!....hopefully women these days do "searches" on men they plan to date (and vice versa)....because there is lots of eye opening information on the web about him!!!!.....
Makingitbetter March 27, 2012 at 02:37 AM
My sentiments regarding Julie as well!!....
Makingitbetter March 27, 2012 at 02:38 AM
...any update Stacy???
happydayz February 08, 2013 at 03:03 AM
It's amazing that even with all the information on the internet.. he still manages to "convince" women that he is so amazing... I agree with you... People need to Heed carefully to what they are reading.. or they will be the ones next to be written about! I saw him recently in public and he still manages to manipulate new women into his life.
happydayz February 08, 2013 at 03:09 AM
Thank God you were able to get out of the relationship unharmed! He must be getting angrier and more aggressive as he ages.
happydayz February 08, 2013 at 03:14 AM
Isn't it interesting that Paul's mother died a few months after Julie... I would not be surprised if he didn't have something to do with this or his aunt's death (mother's best friend) which was shortly after his mother!
happydayz February 08, 2013 at 03:33 AM
Ladies... please beware of this man! I have known of him for over 4 years now.. I have seen the devastation he causes. The court systems are really over worked and from my research, the state's case is still pending against him. He is a true sociopath perpetrator. His disguise doesn't last forever!! God willing he will be in jail sooner than later for his actions! I believe the lord will have punishment on this man, this lifetime for all the horrible things he has done!! He got away with what he did to Julie... and I feel she is working her magic from Heaven to hold him accountable!
Makingitbetter February 11, 2013 at 03:20 AM
happydayz....did you date Paul Ayoub as well? I saw you wrote you have known him for 4 years.....and you are obviously keeping a close eye on what is happening with him.....He is a wolf in lambs clothing....presents good but is dangerous...every now and then I check to see what is happening with him by doing a "google" search, because I truly believe he will exceed that line that will FINALLY put him behind bars....my guess is Borderline Personality Disorder...have you seen how he tries to hurt himself (e..g, burn himself , bang his head against walls, get "high") when he gets upset?......I enjoyed reading your take on Paul....I recall when I first got to know him and he prided in being "honest" (not a liar) and that he only abused his first/only wife. Wow, his trail has been LONG.....
Makingitbetter February 11, 2013 at 03:27 AM
I think saying his mom was involved in the murder of Julie is a bit "far- fetched" - let's keep with the realities of who "he" is...and the devastation he brings to women through his emotional and physical abuse...let's be sure to keep this blog "credible"....his mother was indeed troubled..she was allegedly abused by his father...so, the family trait/characteristic continues...learned behavior? When he tried beating me up his mother left the house!!!.....she knew exactly what was going on....perhaps she felt the same defenslessness and needed to leave....b/c she knew the scene all too well!!!!....
happydayz February 11, 2013 at 10:07 PM
Hi Makingitbetter, A good friend of mine dated Paul. We all met in the health community. She would confide in me about his abusive traits and ask me for my "guy" opinion and protection. I have seen how he goes thru women continuously and how he always portrays himself to be the "normal" one. The stories he told my friend about his ex's... that they were crazy, non-social, abusive and would attack him so that he would have to fight back in defense. If it were true what he says about all his past relationships (Including the crazy ex wife who gained so much weight and treated him so badly)... you would think Paul would take a good look at himself first to see why he is attracting that type of woman (if what he was saying was really true). And you would hope he would be getting help before putting himself into another relationship (but again, that would be what a "normal" person does) Paul Ayoub is clearly a sociopath and there is nothing normal about him. He plays victim to help lure women into his web. He also plays the part of "Please help me and be the woman to discipline me, my mother never loved me enough to do so! Will you?!" He is no victim and I agree, this pattern will continue. His pattern reminds me of people who think it's ok to kill in the name of God. He portrays himself as a Holy man. At least now, the police and courts have their eyes on him... so when he does this again, hopefully the next woman will utilize the authorities to put a final stop to him.

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